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2011年8月3日星期三

Should I message my old history teacher letting her know that I did not like what she did in the past?

-Or should I just let it go?I'm a 19 year old girl and I graduated a year ago from high school and I still remember about my history teacher back when I was a freshman. She used to treat me like I was stupid, probably because of the Spanish accent I had. But I'm very good at speaking English and I was back then. I also remember she asked me a question about my backpack but I did not understand her the first time, so she started laughing and she said to herself " She doesn't understand." There was a time when she was handing out papers to students to join honors classes and I wanted one. She then looked at me and said," You? You want to join honors, do you even know what honors mean?" That got me good. There was also a time when she was speaking to me about college and said, " I have concern in you, do you know what concern means?" And lastly, she was rude, one time she was walking in my direction and told me, " You're in my way." She also yelled at me one time in the library for something really stupid. She also got fired from her job later on, but I don't think it was because she yelled at me. I've taken 2 honors classes in 10th grade and passed them both. I've also taken 3 AP classes during my senior year and passed all 3. Right now I am currently studying business at college. She has made me feel so stupid but my family and friends say I am not. This has been bothering me for years, and I think I might feel better if I told her how I felt and I didn't like what she did, but in a nice through facebook. But also will I get in trouble at facebook? Should I say something to her?You should probably let it go ... especially since the more you hold onto that anger, the more bitter you'll become, and that's just bad for your physical, spiritual, and mental health.



Also, she's probably forgotten about you and the whole thing by now, so even if you yelled at her, she'd just think "Who was that?", shrug, and go on with her life without caring.



But if you must hold onto your anger, let me share an old saying with you: "The best revenge is success." Be successful.let it go, as hard as it is. Jesus can help you forgive, and you dont want bitterness to eat you up inside. people will be rude, no matter where you go, there will be rude people, pray for her and ask God to give you strength to do what is right.:)
You can't really get in trouble for calling the ***** out on all that she has done. She's probably racist so you should tell her how well you are doing and what a piece of **** she is.
What purpose would it serve? Will it change what happened? Nope. Will it change how she teaches now assuming she is still teaching? Not likely. According to what you said, she received a consequence for being a bad teacher. She was fired. While it is true you don't know the circumstances that led to her being fired, really good teachers usually don't get fired. Forget the b@#$%. Focus on the positive things going on in your life. Remember the successes you have had. If you really feel the need to communicate with this person, write her a letter then BURN IT. That will allow you to vent your anger towards her.

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